{"id":6777,"date":"2024-04-29T10:51:03","date_gmt":"2024-04-29T10:51:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/first-emotional-aid-during-stress-crisis-and-traumatic-events-an-algorithm-of-actions\/"},"modified":"2024-04-29T11:11:36","modified_gmt":"2024-04-29T11:11:36","slug":"first-emotional-aid-during-stress-crisis-and-traumatic-events-an-algorithm-of-actions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/first-emotional-aid-during-stress-crisis-and-traumatic-events-an-algorithm-of-actions\/","title":{"rendered":"First emotional aid during stress, crisis and traumatic events: an algorithm of actions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To cope with stress on your own and support your loved ones in these difficult times, it is useful to know the basic methods of emotional support*. Oleksii Agentaiev, an expert from Zaporizhzhia-based NGO STEP, has prepared tips to help stabilize a person in a stressful, traumatic or crisis situation and significantly reduce the level of psychological trauma.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oleksiy Agentayev, expert of the NGO STEP.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Memo-instruction on providing first emotional aid in the event of stressful, crisis and traumatic events<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">(for psychologists, volunteers, and those who are just around)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I am here \/ contact. You say that you are there, that the person is not alone. You see and feel a direct connection with the traumatic event (episode), but you make sure to record the absence of physical injury (bodily injury) that requires medical intervention.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stimulation. The principle of &#8220;joining and leading&#8221;. A person should be encouraged to take active independent action, helping themselves and others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The goal of the helper is to be active: if the victim is sitting, the helper also sits, if the victim is in motion, the specialist, joining, is also in motion, gradually slowing down the pace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;I am with you, you are not alone&#8230; I am&#8230; name&#8230; I want to help you.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Questioning should NOT be emotional. Questions should be simple and open. Remember that in this state, a person is very suggestible (tell the truth clearly, briefly and directly).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It is important to tell what happened BEFORE and AFTER the event, to emphasize that the event is over. Everything is over.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If the person is in a state of stupor, use the Three YES technique. It is necessary to ask three simple questions in sequence to which the victim is likely to answer &#8220;Yes&#8221;. Focus the victim primarily on physical sensations.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For example, take his hand and ask him to shake your hand. In this way, the specialist helps the victim regain control and activates the ability to feel their body.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If possible, ask a question that involves a choice or a request that the victim can fulfill. For example, pouring water into a glass for themselves, choosing whether they want to drink tea or coffee, telling them where they will go as soon as they feel better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avoid confrontation, support any positive changes in the person&#8217;s behavior by encouraging them with words and gestures.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">What not to do when providing first aid:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Asking a person about their feelings.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Make vain promises and provide false information.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Forcefully provide assistance, be intrusive and too persistent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Forcing people to tell their stories or telling them without their permission to others.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Condemning a person for their actions or feelings: &#8220;You shouldn&#8217;t think like that&#8221; or &#8220;Be glad you survived.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Interrupting or rushing a person&#8217;s story (e.g., looking at the clock).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Touching a person if you are not sure that it is acceptable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Use complex terms.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Talk about your own problems.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8211; Talking about people in a negative way (e.g., calling them &#8220;crazy&#8221; or &#8220;nuts&#8221;).<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">* Links to useful resources on psychological assistance during the war are available here.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Read also: &#8220;Emergency psychological aid during the war: how to support yourself and others<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The material was created with the support of the international charity platform GlobalGiving, the Charles Stewart Mott Foundation. The content of the publication is the sole responsibility of the public union &#8220;Legal Development Network&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Source:<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/ldn.org.ua\/useful-material\/psykholohichna-dopomoha-sobi-ta-blyz-kym-u-stani-hostroho-stresu-kryzovykh-i-travmatychnykh-podiy-alhorytm-diy\/\"> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Legal Development Network<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>To cope with stress on your own and support your loved ones in these difficult times, it is useful to know the basic methods of emotional support*. Oleksii Agentaiev, an expert from Zaporizhzhia-based NGO STEP, has prepared tips to help stabilize a person in a stressful, traumatic or crisis situation and significantly reduce the level [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":6753,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[102],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6777","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-102"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6777","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6777"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6777\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6777"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6777"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/center-help.info\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6777"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}